Ano ba ang SEX?

Kapag ang-isip tayo ng masarap na sex, karaniwan we imagine a couple na naglalampungan, pawis na pawis na parang gutom na gutom sa kanilang lovemaking. Ganyan ang mga karaniwang nakikita natin sa sine o television. So ang isip natin agad, ang good sex ay parang ganoon na nga. Tama? Pero ano ba talaga ang mga signs ng great love life, at paano ba sasabihin ng magkapareha na mayroon silang good married sex? Let’s say na ang isang mag-asawa are making love kada isang buwan lang. Okey ba ‘yun? It depends. Ang sexual appetite ng mag-partner ay dapat in harmony. Sa madaling salita they should be having enough sex para maging maligaya sila. Kung magkaganun nga, it means they’re having good sex. Sabi ng iba there is good sex when couples do it more often. Pero sa katotohanan, having good sex does not mean having it all the time. Kalimutan muna natin ung sinasabi na kalimitan ang mag-asawa raw makes love four times a week. If making love once a month answers your sexual needs, komportable ka at masaya sa ganoong set up, then you’re having a good sex. Tingnan ninyong mabuti yung mga wild at passionate sex scenes sa pelikula. Lahat yun ay para lang masatisfy ang sexual hunger. Ang good married sex ay kakaiba. Partners get the most pleasure from pleasing each other. Mas iniisip nila yung hindi sa sarili, kundi para dun sa partner nila. Good married sex means having sex kahit wala ka sa mood. Pero dahil gusto ng asawa mo at gusto mo siyang ma-please, you’ll love giving it to him/her. Loving couples know that their partner’s happiness is as important as their own. Couples with good sex lives never keep scores nor don’t keep track of who did what for whom last, or insist every sexual episode end with orgasm. Alam nila na if you give pleasure to someone, you;ll give it to yourself. Sa paglipas ng panahon, passion, eagerness and ardor may go down. Pero huwag mong hayaang mangyari yon. Kelangan…keep the fire burning! Be creative! Gamitin ang imahinasyon! Kailangan maging adventurous. Partners who know each other well should feel comfortable with risk. Kaya, trust is essential. Sex is the most intimate part of married life. Maliban na lang kung walang pagtitiwala, you can’t open yourself up and share bodies, minds and souls. For loving couples, masaya ang mag-eksperimento. Because they know failures won’t make them foolish. Natututo silang tumawa sa kanilang kapalpakan. Humor is a very important ingredient para sa masarap na sex. Kung ang bagong move ay hindi umubra, they don’t get upset. They don’t let their bodies go. Inaalagaan nila ang kanilang health, get regular checkups, ehersisyo, at mino-monitor ang timbang. It is important to stay in great shape. The healthier you are, the more energy you’ll have for everything…including sex. Good sex does not necessarily mean intercourse. Iyan ang kamalian ng iba. Masyado tayong nakapokus on the act itself na we forget there are other ways to make love. Snuggling? Kelangan we should learn how to hold, touch and stroke without demanding sex. Intimacy isn’t limited to the bedroom and a happy couples knows this. They kiss, touch, hug and hold hands everywhere. Daily doses of affection keep husbands and wives in touch with their sexuality. Nakakapag-paalala ito na no matter how many other roles they play---parent, worker, neighbor, friend, good citizen, they are lovers first.

My family at Trinoma

Party 2008

Our Cristmas Party 2008

The Judges: Vicson, Marie, Ely and Jacky CAbuyao Beauties The Couples Los Palikeros Liza, Zandra and Mitch Ana, Jon and Vetvet Mga Pa-cute with Jon Jon and Vetvet Eating time with Jacky with Fhe dance number by Vetvet and Jacky Ely a.k.a. Ayessa Ayala Zobel foods...foods...foods... the belbeliscious Momo Malabo